“My Wife Won’t Kiss Me!”
How To Kiss Your Wife Again When She Won’t Kiss You Back
… do whatever would make her feel comfortable. Take it slow and enjoy the journey as you experiment with kissing again.
Begin-as-beginners together and enjoy whatever small progress you both make.
If She Doesn’t Like The WAY You Kiss Her
Every person likes to be kissed in different ways. One person might like the direct, frontal approach and a big, wet kiss right on the lips. Another might find that particular style confronting and overwhelming and instead prefer to be approached from the side or even from behind and folded into a hug with eyelid and cheek kisses before even getting near their lips.
Dial your approach back and think about what it was like when you were a teenager experimenting with your first kisses. Go slowly. Enjoy every brush of lips on skin. Put as much attention into the location and how your bodies are fitting together as you kiss her..
Practice different kinds of hugs and holds. If she wears lipstick, be considerate to ask before you kiss (she’ll love this!). The bottom line? Find out about her preferences and boundaries and what she likes and doesn’t like about kissing you and find your way together slowly… with hearts full of love for each other.
Even if you never get to deep, probing French kissing marathon session, you can find ways to kiss that will satisfy you both.
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The Best Kissing Moments
Begin looking for special moments to give her hugs and kisses that don’t overwhelm her. Practice does make perfect and these are golden opportunities where you can begin to woo her again and warm her with your kisses:
First thing when you wake up – roll over and give her a smooch and a hug.
Before you leave for work. (Even if it’s just a kiss on the cheek, give her a peck and wish her a beautiful day.)
When you walk in the door, go to her and hug and kiss her on the eyelids. Soon enough she’ll be waiting for you to get home.
After a meal, thank her for being with you.
Before you turn out the lights at night.
As you’re getting the door for her. And when you get her car door, offer your hand and kiss her briefly as she’s standing up.
When she says something silly or funny.
When she’s done something sweet.
When she’s grumpy. (Hint: The hug is more important than the kiss when she’s grumpy.)
And of course… when you’re making love.
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— Susan Bratton wants to help you enjoy more intimacy and pleasure. She champions men’s rights for shame-free sexuality and creates tools and techniques that help men open intimately to their partners for more passion.
Susan is the co-founder and CEO of Personal Life Media, an online publishing company specializing in heart-centered adult sexual education home study programs. She’s the creator of Revive Her Drive, an online course that helps men lead their wives and girlfriends back to more a more passionate relationship.
An internationally renowned author, publisher and speaker, Susan has won awards for her work and been featured in print, online and television in media outlets as wide-ranging as the New York Times, CNBC and Playboy radio. Susan works with her husband, Tim, providing online home study programs for men and couples who want more intimacy and connection. She lives in Mill Valley, California.
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Romancing your partner is a gift you give yourself too. Keeping score is fruitless — love is immeasurable. And it doesn’t matter if, at first, you do “all the work” of romancing her. Keep at it and soon she will be romancing you back…
FIND OUT WHAT’S IN HER HEART
“When we can speak from these vulnerable core places, we are more likely to work through conflict and feel intimate.”
“When trying to solve a problem or work through a situation, let yourself hear all your thoughts and feelings. Don’t censor anything. Often people have important thoughts they dismiss because they don’t seem relevant or because they seem contradictory. Say or write down everything until you feel a sense of being cleared out. Sometimes if you sit for a minute longer, deeper thoughts will come to mind. This is your inner world speaking to you.”
“One way to gain access to our deeper thoughts is to put our focus in the area of our heart, and breathe into it. You can imagine the area softening and becoming spacious. You might want to touch the area over your heart and keep your focus there as you listen. Imagine that you are putting your problem or concern in your heart with kindness and compassion. Then follow your thoughts deeper and deeper. In this way you will find your truths.” — Excerpted from, “A Home for the Heart: Creating Intimacy and Community with Loved Ones, Neighbors and Friends,”
by Charlotte Sophia Kasl, Ph.D.