Attention: Married Men, 35-65+ who need more frequent touch, affection and intimacy…
Rekindle The Romance!
How To Revive Your Wife’s Interest In Marital Relations Even If She’s Suffered Sexual Abuse As A Young Woman.
Jon’s Revival Story
Jon actually had it comparatively easy. Leslie enjoys her orgasms, so they began with a good sexual foundation. Like most women, after the love chemicals wear off and they are taxed with child rearing and careering, it’s simply a matter of patience to get her aroused.
In Jon’s case, “stealth mode” wouldn’t be appropriate.” He needs to talk to Leslie about his hopes and desires for their sex life and support her in removing the “abuse obstacle” forever. He used Vulnerability and Vision (two of the 4 Keys to Seduction) and set a standard for what he wants to give and receive sexually with Leslie.
Mix and match the techniques.
Easily personalize the advice to your needs.
He wanted more frequent lovemaking and for Leslie to be free, once and for all, from the specter of her childhood abuse.
He drives her to and from her weekly therapist appointment. He’s WITH her. She’s not willing to slow down for a sexual speed bump any longer. (Overcoming Resistance)
Once he understood the 4 Things a Woman Needs, miraculous changes happened in his marriage. It was a blinding flash of light, an “aha!” moment, an epiphany… He never considered that the biological decline of hormones could be THAT powerful.
Without Oxytocin coursing through her system, it was like she got neutered.
He believed that she truly wanted to be intimate with him, she just needed her man to help her get back to herself. He had to get to the point where he drew that line in the sand and offered to help her become the woman he knew was inside.
He selected the positive psychology techniques from Revive Her Drive that he knew would work well on Leslie. Now she’s so delightfully affectionate because he’s always keeping her simmering with seduction techniques and he’s devoting the time it takes to arouse her properly.
Their sex is incredibly satisfying and saturated with a depth of love that comes from years of raising a family together.
Jon’s even accelerating their sexual growth with Positive Feedback Loops that reward her progress. He’s learned how to use the other 2 Keys to Seduction, Erotic Vigilance (he’s paying attention to her) to make her Small Offers to which Leslie says, “Yes!”
She can’t stop thinking about him all day long, waiting impatiently for him to get home. She loves the things he’s saying to her. It’s like they’re newlyweds. (Erotic Communication)
When he gets home, he is motivated to help her get the kids to bed so they can relax and play together. Since he started focusing on bringing pleasure into their lives instead of focusing on his lack of sex, they’ve been having so much more fun. (Female Psychology)
And now that Jon teases her sensually during the day and sloooowly fills her up with his touch at night, she has sweetly opened to him. More than that, she’s purring and he knows, with all he’s doing, it will soon be a roar.
Why this revival system might work for you too.
Can it really be as simple as understanding and using the Four Elements of Revival?
Can Ivan, SemperFi and Jon do what Robert did? Or is what they must do different?
Is it replicable?
Will it work for their wives and girlfriends?
YES. Unequivocally, yes.
When you personally customize a combination of the Four Elements of Revival, for your individual relationship, it will thaw nearly any woman, no matter how long it’s been since she’s felt sexual.
Positive psychology powerfully reverses the effects of the decline of love hormones. Incorporating that with seduction techniques and advanced SENSUAL mastery tactics are the magic combination for nearly every relationship, no matter how bad you think your situation is.
You may not need to bolster all four of these in your relationship, but it might be even better when you do.
Let’s work with the assumption that you want to “fire on all cylinders” and that you are interested in knowing how these four components work together to revitalize her sensuality. You will move her toward being a very sexy woman, either for the first time or once again.
This plan of action assumes:
1) You want a better sex life with her
2) You formerly had a reasonable enough connection with her that you believe she has the potential to feel good sexually and you’ve seen proof of her ability to enjoy sex (even if it’s been a tremendously long time since that has occurred.)
1) You are willing to learn new skills and put focus on her to get the reward of recreating intimacy and sensuality with her, including letting go of any residual anger or rejection you’ve been feeling
1) You’d love nothing more than to not only get her back where she used to be sexually-speaking, but you’d like to move her toward an ever increasing hot, juicy sex life with you
If you have a history of some acceptable sex (when you first got together) and no major health issues (we address aging issues) then you are ready to revive her sex drive. **
Guys who have sharp Vision know how to rebound if they don’t get the response they’re seeking.
When you have several ideas mapped out, you’re confident.
As the husband, it is your job to lead her to her sensual potential.
The Four Elements of Revival – which are the four easy and fun steps within Revive Her Drive that you take to turn her back on and get her to enjoy making love frequently again – are used to see where you must put their attention to fix your specific sexless situation.
The 4 Elements have mix and match concepts so you can right-size them to your marriage.
Jon used the positive psychological strategies that give his wife what she wants, what she needs, to feel and be sexual again:
- masculine feminine balance,
- psycho-emotional rewards,
- techniques to open her to her sensuality, understanding of a woman’s physical arousal networks
- and at least a hundred great ideas to bring her closer to you, to ignite that spark of chemistry again.
How long does the revival take?
- You will see again the powerful forces of love that exist in your connection with your woman almost immediately.
- You will uncover the psychological reasons she resists and learn how tenderness gets her to surrender to her sensual self again in a matter of weeks or months.
- You’ll free yourself (and annoy her less) from your hungry sex-bunny feeling. And you’ll both learn how to share in a mutual turn-on that brings pleasure (and relief!) to both of you straight away.
- Best of all, these “psycho-emotional tools” quickly and easily reawaken the passionate girl you first dated. They are logical and easy to apply instantaneously, from where ever you are now.
Why does this work better than therapy?
This home study program can save you 50 hours and $10K a year.
Most therapists are taught as mediators or listening coaches and aren’t financially incentivized to solve your problem. Many suffer from sexless marriages too. Unless your wife is willing to go to a sex therapist, a marriage counselor may not be equipped to handle your need for more lovemaking.
NEW! The idea of using mind over matter — psychology trumps biology.
The 4-Year Itch breakthrough — it was called the 7-Year Itch until new research uncovered the loss of Oxytocin and Vasopressin levels after 2-3 years — is a recent scientific discovery.
Since female behavior is created by male behavior within the context of a relationship — you can actually transform her into a pleasure-seeking device within weeks, even days.
- First you must ensure there’s masculine/feminine polarity. We can tell you how to create it or get it back.
- You will shore up her trust that you will take care of her, both in and outside the bedroom.
- And there are specific techniques you can use to help her surrender to her dormant sensuality, just waiting to be awakened.
- If she has “issues,” and what woman doesn’t, we show you how to overcome or tame them so that she can enjoy herself. Sexual inhibitions stem from fear, control and lack of intimacy. One single technique can erase decades of repression.
- We show you how to start small, slow and from the outside in to gradually escalate her reactions and desires.
- You can even do nearly everything in the program without talking about it. The Stealth Turn-Around Tricks eBook is short, easy and works. You’ll even get an immediate way to move her mind into the non-verbal realm to deflect her sabotaging thoughts and negative self-talk.
- Imagine the excitement you’ll feel when you begin to drive your win rate through the roof with this incredibly simple strategy that helps you make her the “right offer” for the right experience, so she’s finally a “YES.”
- It comes from the Four Keys to Seduction. You will learn how to be a master seducer for your own wife (or GF) using Small Offers, Erotic Vigilance, Vulnerability and Vision — a model you’ll use for the rest of your life for great sex.
Become a FORCE of initiation again to transport her on a beautiful erotic journey with these tools. This fix it plan will boost you out of your doldrums. And I promise, you’ll see results, even if you think her female parts have icicles frozen over them like jail bars.
How does the plan work?
What’s inside the program?
First assess your situation.
What are the obstacles that need to be removed or mitigated? (we give you a way to handle this efficiently)
Do you need to rebalance the masculine/feminine ratio? (we show you how)
You begin to bring her to pleasure and open her sensual self again using female psychology – stuff you’d never imagine in a million years would be effective.
Your mouth will gape like a slack-jawed yokel, but these strategies DELIVER. (you get a pleasure trove of techniques to customize to your personal style)
And we give you some killer sexual mastery techniques that will melt her into a puddle of love and affection for you once you’ve melted the icicle jail bars over her womanly parts.
She’ll THANK YOU for reawakening her to her sexiness.
That’s when you send us your success story to share with the other guys on this journey along side you.
Within Revive Her Drive are a dozen expert interviews, called “The Seduction Summit.”
These experts come were selected because of their wide-ranging backgrounds. You get a diversity of perspectives and strategies:
- 4 Keys to Seduction – Dr. Patti Taylor
- Sexual Sticking Points – David Van Arrick
- Seduction Integrity – Karen Brody
- Lifelong Passion – Alex Allman
- Erotic Communication – Adam Gilad
- Masterful Lover Manifesto – David Shade
- Dance of Polarity – Christian Hudson
- Alpha Masculinity – Carlos Xuma
- Dance of Polarity – Christian Hudson
- Erotic Adventures – Tallulah Sulis
- Secret Arousal Maps – Sheri Winston
- Ejaculatory Choice – Destin Gerek
- Sustaining Attraction – John Alanis
Every interview is also well-transcribed in an eBook.
How do I know exactly what to do?
What it takes to ignite the spark of intimacy.
You can cherry-pick the most interesting or listen straight through the 15 hours of fascinating, seductive advice. If you like to read, enjoy the transcribed interviews.
Use the directions in the Fast Path Guide and the Four Elements of Revival eBook to dive directly into sections you need most.
With Stealth Turn-Around Tactics, you can talk it out with her or you can try a combination of a little dialog and a little stealth magic.
- Assess everything just a few minutes from now and start concentrating on your action plan tonight. By tomorrow, begin to see the glimmer of hope you may have thought was gone forever. One bright blue spark of possibility is all it takes to jump off the downward spiral onto the updraft to intimacy.
- Start fighting those hormones with your masculine fire power. They don’t stand a chance!
**Before you get started, make sure that there’s nothing emotionally or physically wrong with her health. That’s the one area where I cannot help you and you need to seek professional advice.
“Learn how have spontaneous, serendipitous, amazing, mind-blowing, cosmic sex on purpose.”
Jon is a real man. And there are thousands of others like him who have had turned their love lives back on with Revive Her Drive.
These are true stories and real men in actual situations. They are wretchedly common, based on intimate questioning of men from all geographic regions, in a wide range of socio-economic and cross-cultural backgrounds.
What they share in common are feelings of hopelessness and rejection, of frustration and longing — longing to have “the mother of their children,” the girl whose eyes used to light up when she saw him — want, really want, to make love with him again.
These men c r a v e physical contact.
They fit into the all-too-common “sexless marriage” category. They are sex-starved. They’re tired of initiating. She seldom if ever initiates – it’s like her libido retired.
They are hurt, deprived and if they’re getting any sex, it’s likely boring.
This is not uncommon, you are not alone and we have the only program in the world that directly addresses this situation where you physical relations have dwindled and you don’t want to live the rest of our life without the touch of your woman’s love.
Susan is the co-founder and CEO of Personal Life Media, an online publishing company specializing in heart-centered adult sexual education home study programs. She’s the creator of Revive Her Drive, an online course that helps men lead their wives and girlfriends back to more a more passionate relationship.
An internationally renowned author, publisher and speaker, Susan has won awards for her work and been featured in print, online and television in media outlets as wide-ranging as the New York Times, CNBC and Playboy radio. Susan works with her husband, Tim, providing online home study programs for men and couples who want more intimacy and connection. She lives in Mill Valley, California.
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- I wanted to say a big THANK YOU… even though I’m only about half way thru all the material, it’s already helping tremendously… and my wife says thank you also While I knew some of it, it was a great reminder and then there were things I didn’t realize I (we) were doing that was ruining things… we were stuck in that viscous circle and was keeping us stuck there with HOW I was communicating with her. Anyway, things are much better and continuing to improve, even during what most would consider a stressful time (we just moved far from all family and friends)… so thanks again!
- I was skeptical and now I’m fully convinced of your sincerity. I got connected through a trial of Revive Her Drive. I have to admit, when I received the info I felt overwhelmed and basically gave up before getting started. I was also just a little skeptical. I’ve been reading all the emails the last six months and I’m now fully convinced of your sincerity and desire to help others. I’ve been blown away by so many of things you’ve had to say in general about living a more fulfilled life.Thank You.
- I’m now on the 6th interview and I can honestly say that the info so far is shocking for a man. I’m 36, been in two relationships, and after what I’ve heard up till now is that this stuff needs to be taught when we’re young. These are very critical concepts and governing principals that I NEVER knew about. Its a lot for a guy to swallow, but I’m open to it cuz my marriage is suffering!
- Wow, really good stuff so far. I didn’t realise how resistant to being sensual that I was. Now I can see how important it is to a woman. All those times she wants me to be romantic I had no idea what she meant – now I am starting to see.
- You impress me so much with your ability to describe such a variety of exquisite intimate sensations so eloquently and precisely and appreciatively for us men. I think your calling is to be a connoisseur of the intimate female experience. The ability you have developed to feel so much and so articulately describe its shades and contours is something amazing to behold. You are a diamond with so many brilliant facets that continue to surprise me and inspire in me more and more respect, adoration, and love.
- Wanted to send some kudos … I was saying nice things about you and thought I should say them to your face. You may not remember, but I met you back at the convention in SF – great keynote address! You added me to your email list, so since then I’ve been following your communications and have been really, really impressed on how right-on you are regarding the things men could/should be doing to get more of what they want. I’ve told SO many men about your program, and I’m guessing that you’ve made a few sales of off that – they’ve all been excited about the concept. Anyway, when I found myself repeating something you’d s aid when I was speaking with my mom, I thought I’d pass along the kudos directly. Keep up the great work!
- Susan, I am delighted that I found your work. I am absolutely overwhelmed with joy “cloud 9” that I am learning/have learned the difference between lust and love and that the walls I built are coming down. You know what is happening? My wife is becoming my friend. That is completely awesome.
- The real power of what I am reading and learning on the Revive Her Drive course is two-fold. Firstly I am learning what women want, from women and being written in a way a man can understand. They are powerful and solid messages. The content is awesome and makes me slap my head and say – “Why did I not see this?” Secondly, I am already finding ways I can reach common ground with my wife of many years and reignite the romance we originally had. Already I’ve taken her out for a special evening using Small Offers, and tried the mirroring (and it worked!). Within three days our communication is warmer, better! Susan, your program rocks! I am wholeheartedly grateful I took the plunge and bought it. I’m a very old-fashioned, reserved Englishman so the bright, sparkly USA approach can be quite alien for me. But you and your guests are so positive and upbeat, I have no trouble engaging with and enjoying the content and learning from it.
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