“How Can I Be More Romantic?”
The 3 Most Effective Romance Ideas To Deepen Physical Intimacy With Your Wife
…leverage the little time you have in your busy schedule and make the right moves that work like magic to thrill her to you.
Rejection-Proof Your Advances
Rejection is the most gutting of experiences. It contracts you and makes you feel badly about yourself. I understand, it’s hard NOT to take rejection personally.
If one of your romantic advances gets rejected, understand that it may have nothing to do with you specifically. There is no such thing as failure, if you look at it merely as feedback.
Bring a compassionate heart to your communications with your woman. She doesn’t mean to make you feel badly, so don’t let it! Just live and learn, move on and try another romance idea. You’ll find what works for her.
We are wired to do anything we can do to AVOID rejection. Sadly, this sometimes can include not bothering to romance her at all because we’re afraid she’ll reject our advances or shame us.
That means we’re not being romantic because we’re afraid of rejection.
And here’s the solution…
Romance She Can’t Resist
How can you know for sure that your romantic act will be accepted?
Start small.
Start with the classics.
Flowers, candy, lingerie, perfume…
Please don’t think flowers are a romantic cliché unless you’ve actually given her flowers in the last thirty days. Please, PLEASE don’t overlook the classics. They are classics for a reason.
Chocolate Candy Trick
Try this twist on the old standard, “It’s romantic to give your girl candy.”
Buy a small amount of premium chocolate candy. Four pieces of Godiva, or six pieces of Lindt’s, a couple of fancy candy bars at a gourmet grocer or some Belgian chocolate if you live in a city that has a Chocolatier.
Make this an EVENT.
Tell her you have a surprise for her. (Hint: If you can get her to snuggle next to you on the sofa or sit on your lap on a chair while you give her your surprise, you also get to play her protector.)
When she’s nestled against you, kiss her on her cheeks, her temples, her eyelids and then put one peck on her lips. Immediately pull a beautifully wrapped box of chocolate out from behind you and ceremoniously present it to her. Look her in the eyes when you tell her…
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— Susan Bratton is an advocate for all men who seek to be better lovers; to lead their woman into her sensual potential. She fervently believes great personal growth can come from informed sexual maturation and is focused on taking the shame out of desire for intimate physical connection.
Along with her husband of 20 years, Tim Bratton she is co-founder of Personal Life Media, an online publisher of home study courses about marital passion and advanced technique and communication skills based in the San Francisco Bay Area, a hotbed of the human potential movement.
Susan is an award-winning speaker and author of over 1,000 articles on intimacy. She is the creator of the high-acclaimed Revive Her Drive program, a self-paced home study course for men all over the world who want to bring passion back to their relationship. She is also the author of 30 Romance Tricks That Work Like Magic among many other books and courses.
